"Feelings" starts where "Words" Ends....

Beauty of the word is that it can explain the meaning but more than that words are beauiful because it fail to explain the feelings..... 
Just imagine how mechanical life would be if words can describe our feeling aptly. Simple thing like taste of the apple cannot be described in words, such is the beauty of the feelings. When we say "I Love you" to our loved one we express that we love that person but words simply cant explain what the person is feeling within him when he is telling "I Love you"


But strange life is we often fall in love with the "Words" and not the feeling behind it. Suppose you are doing some thing wrong and person who loves you scolds you. You will remember all the harsh words spoken by him, which is wrong. Just step back and see why did he spoke harsh words? Did he really meant that harsh words? then you will know the "right intentions" behind the words.

One way to experience someones feeling is to stop judging or giving importance to the "words", Simply just keep your mind away. Feeling is to be experienced in the mindless state. If you notice some one in Love and is mesmerized than you will think that this person has simply gone mad but what that person feels will be more than a heaven for him.

Such is the beauty of feeling that we don't need not use any of our senses. In many religious places like tirupati or Shridi you stand in long Que. Sometimes for days, but when you have darshan of God what you do? You close your eyes and experience the bliss. Notice that you firstly used eyes (Sense) to see the idol of Lord but notice that to experience bliss you used simply nothing!!! 


So Don't give much importance to words but just feel the feeling.............

Don't see part of Zig Saw puzzle but see picture formed after joining Zig-saw puzzle......

We all have and opinion about any particular thing or person. You may call it as perspective. But if you notice we form opinion based on narrow part.

We describe "whole" by experiencing "part" but we forget that it is just a part and not whole. Take for example, If some one of your good friend is not available when you need him once or twice, you make a blanket statement that "He is mean, he is not available when I need him". Even though that person might not be available due to some genuine reason. We forget all the good deeds done by him. We have created Good or Bad part in our mind and have preconceptions about what is good and bad. If a person fulfills all the condition what we have set for "good" we tag them as "Good" or as the case may be. But everyone has good and bad its just what we see.

Similar case is with situations in our life. Once we have bad experience we just generalize that this thing is bad. If some one has heart break then he will jut generalize "Love is Bad, It Hurts". But thats not the fact!!!

Just look every thing with all the dimension, May it be people, Feeling, or situations. If you open up your other portion of the mind then you will realize that no person is "Bad" and no situation is "Bad".

Notice that we keenly observe negative quality and just magnify them. Just simply start De-Magnifying them. Starting looking at broader picture then every thing will look fair to you if not good.

Sri Sri Ravishankar has rightly said " If you notice all the bad moments past in your life were actually not bad as you imagined them to be"