We all have and opinion about any particular thing or person. You may call it as perspective. But if you notice we form opinion based on narrow part.
We describe "whole" by experiencing "part" but we forget that it is just a part and not whole. Take for example, If some one of your good friend is not available when you need him once or twice, you make a blanket statement that "He is mean, he is not available when I need him". Even though that person might not be available due to some genuine reason. We forget all the good deeds done by him. We have created Good or Bad part in our mind and have preconceptions about what is good and bad. If a person fulfills all the condition what we have set for "good" we tag them as "Good" or as the case may be. But everyone has good and bad its just what we see.
Similar case is with situations in our life. Once we have bad experience we just generalize that this thing is bad. If some one has heart break then he will jut generalize "Love is Bad, It Hurts". But thats not the fact!!!
Just look every thing with all the dimension, May it be people, Feeling, or situations. If you open up your other portion of the mind then you will realize that no person is "Bad" and no situation is "Bad".
Notice that we keenly observe negative quality and just magnify them. Just simply start De-Magnifying them. Starting looking at broader picture then every thing will look fair to you if not good.
Sri Sri Ravishankar has rightly said " If you notice all the bad moments past in your life were actually not bad as you imagined them to be"
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Interesting.. "de-magnification" :)
@Mridula:- Thanks........
I know that everything happen in life is for some good purpose but any bad thing / situation come in life then it's very difficult to find out good intention/thing in that case or else any good purpose behind that or finding the reason why such things happen. It's really difficult................
@snehal- So never try to find out reason for why it happened in Life, Never ask God question "Why Me?" More you believe that good will happen in your Life... Many doors automatically opens... And Life is always beautiful...
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