"Feelings" starts where "Words" Ends....

Beauty of the word is that it can explain the meaning but more than that words are beauiful because it fail to explain the feelings..... 
Just imagine how mechanical life would be if words can describe our feeling aptly. Simple thing like taste of the apple cannot be described in words, such is the beauty of the feelings. When we say "I Love you" to our loved one we express that we love that person but words simply cant explain what the person is feeling within him when he is telling "I Love you"


But strange life is we often fall in love with the "Words" and not the feeling behind it. Suppose you are doing some thing wrong and person who loves you scolds you. You will remember all the harsh words spoken by him, which is wrong. Just step back and see why did he spoke harsh words? Did he really meant that harsh words? then you will know the "right intentions" behind the words.

One way to experience someones feeling is to stop judging or giving importance to the "words", Simply just keep your mind away. Feeling is to be experienced in the mindless state. If you notice some one in Love and is mesmerized than you will think that this person has simply gone mad but what that person feels will be more than a heaven for him.

Such is the beauty of feeling that we don't need not use any of our senses. In many religious places like tirupati or Shridi you stand in long Que. Sometimes for days, but when you have darshan of God what you do? You close your eyes and experience the bliss. Notice that you firstly used eyes (Sense) to see the idol of Lord but notice that to experience bliss you used simply nothing!!! 


So Don't give much importance to words but just feel the feeling.............

Don't see part of Zig Saw puzzle but see picture formed after joining Zig-saw puzzle......

We all have and opinion about any particular thing or person. You may call it as perspective. But if you notice we form opinion based on narrow part.

We describe "whole" by experiencing "part" but we forget that it is just a part and not whole. Take for example, If some one of your good friend is not available when you need him once or twice, you make a blanket statement that "He is mean, he is not available when I need him". Even though that person might not be available due to some genuine reason. We forget all the good deeds done by him. We have created Good or Bad part in our mind and have preconceptions about what is good and bad. If a person fulfills all the condition what we have set for "good" we tag them as "Good" or as the case may be. But everyone has good and bad its just what we see.

Similar case is with situations in our life. Once we have bad experience we just generalize that this thing is bad. If some one has heart break then he will jut generalize "Love is Bad, It Hurts". But thats not the fact!!!

Just look every thing with all the dimension, May it be people, Feeling, or situations. If you open up your other portion of the mind then you will realize that no person is "Bad" and no situation is "Bad".

Notice that we keenly observe negative quality and just magnify them. Just simply start De-Magnifying them. Starting looking at broader picture then every thing will look fair to you if not good.

Sri Sri Ravishankar has rightly said " If you notice all the bad moments past in your life were actually not bad as you imagined them to be"

Love is every where......

Everything on this mother earth is product of Love.Whenever you love someone you get attracted towards it. Science says everything on this earth is made up of tiny molecules. They are attracted to each other so deeply that we feel it as one object. So each object whether living or non living is made up of love. We all human beings are also product of love.

                                              

No one on this earth can survive without Love. Even the person who says “I hate”, also loves. Take for instance when you say bad to someone he feels bad and  hates your this kind of attitude. Now just change dimension and look it from other side. Question yourself “why does he hate my attitude?”answer is because he loves yourdifferent kind of attitude.

Love can be positive or reverse. It can make you or break you; it can be way you for your success or path to failure. It all depends on how YOU handle your love.  Important word in last line is “You” because at the end of the day you, yourself are the person to be blamed for path you choose. If you love to smoke, then it can lead to bad health, where as love to read can make you scholar. Love towards laziness can lead to failure where as love towards work can make you enthusiastic and shape your career to its best. So you need to understand what is right for you. Ask to your deepest soul what you would love to do and start doing that accordingly.

Excess of love can also be dangerous some times. Excess love towards work can make you workaholic and thereby make your life dull. Excess love towards achievement can make you egoistic. Excess love towards others can make you very attached to them leading to high level of expectations. And as economists have told expectations (demands) are unending.  They multiply exponentially and there is no end to it. Then suddenly you start noticing that you are the only person who loves and not the other person (which is not true at all). One event where other person did not acted as you wanted is enough to break you and then you generalize “He/ She doesn’t love me” Its gets more messier and messier.

 Even to love yourself beyond a certain extent is harmful, because it will lead you towards selfishness.

  

Love is present everywhere, it is linked to every object yet it remains “Pure” when it is Delinked. What I mean to say is we link our expectations with whom we love. We feel he/ she is my love so I should have exclusive right over him/ her. We become over possessive. But we need to realize we cannot play with the ball if you hold it tight. Let it be free, it will come back to its center and if other person is truly loving you, then you become his/ her center.

You should have unending Trust in another person. I believe no relation on this earth can be build up if basic foundation of “Trust” does not exist. Trust does not mean expectation but it’s a Belief. You don’t expect that my love should be there when I need her but you BELIVE that she will be with me whenever I need her.  Its just like belief in God. We don’t have to prove it. It’s there.

Pure love exist in the small child face, in the love of our parents, in ocean, in wind, in soil, they are ready to accept you way you are, wherever you are whatever you do, because they have least expectations. So according to me purest form of love is when it is unconditional. River gives away all of its water unconditionally to whoever comes to it.

Let’s all of us make a vow that we will touch each and every person coming in our life with wonderful feeling of Unconditional Love…..

    

  

Get dissolved... Flow with Water, Blow with Air...Be 100%

Sri Sri Ravishankar often quotes "Are You 100% here? I don't want half of you here and rest half somewhere outside."

We need to learn the simple fact that whatever we are doing we should do it one hundred percent then only we will cherish that activity.

Many times we keep on doing the things for just sake of doing, for example simple good morning to our boss. Do we really mean it? It often becomes just statement with no meaning attached to it. But if we do it with grace and feeling of enthusiasm then we will really cherish some of the simple and routine things of our life too. 

We become very mechanical sometimes and do certain activity without any feeling like doing it.

Problem of our mind is that it always runs always from the present moment. If we are at work, we think "When the hell I will go home?", or "Weekend is so Far". Or "Working on weekend makes me Crazy" or...........................

And when we are at home: "I have hell lot of work to do next week" or "I hope my manager will be impressed with my work” Or .......................

When we are at office we think of home and when we are in home we think of office. Thereby we fail to enjoy office or even home.

Just be where you are. Don’t worry about other thing when you are doing something.

When you are dancing just dance with 100% joy in to it, like no one is watching you. Fully get dissolved in the music.

Whenever you do any activity with 100% grace then your will definitely get the Best result. 

Feel world from "Eye" and not look from "I"

"Accept the World as it is, we always want to be our World as WE want it to be. This feeling spoils everything around us.

Life is a Positive and filled with deep love and Happiness but one Little "I" makes the life opposite. The main reason for opposite side of Life is this little word "I"; that is the EGO.

We interpret everything as we want it to be & moreover we Try to force our thought in mind of others. When you look world from I- angle then you create an Illusionary image of others in your mind and then you try to create illusionary image of yours in mind of others. You get so much involved in the illusionary world that you feel like that being real. But fact is you have not seen things beyond your feeling.

When you look things as they are then life will be much more fun and fresh. Accept whatever comes with a big Smile.... "

YOU- make world complete........

God has made this Universe with a reason; nothing is Unplanned in his Beautiful World. As the scientist say that, on Earth Water is the oldest. Once God saw water he felt something missing

So he created Fish and then he kept on creating many things which he had in his heart. He created Lovely Birds, Variety of Fruits, Waterfall, Wind, etc.

Then He stopped for a while and gave a deep thought. "What is still missing?” Then something clicked in his mind and he created the most intelligent species on Mother Earth, human being.

There was still something missing. God again gave deep thought. It took lot of time this time. Then suddenly something clicked in his mind. He started creating the most Unique thing on this earth, which he had never created. He created that thing with deep Love and Dedication. Finally it was ready and God thought now my Beautiful World is Complete.

Do you know what that thing was?

It was you dear, as "YOU". You truly make world complete.

Ocean is made up of drop of water, although one drop is too small but to build up ocean that drop is equally important as other drop. Similarly never think that you are too small creature on this planet. Never underestimate your potential. You have been created by God with some uniqueness and with purpose.

No one on this earth can taste apple as you can. What you see from eye that no one else can see. What you can feel, that no one can feel. All your Emotions, Feeling, Actions are Unique by itself.

God has made you because he wanted to make his world complete. He has given you the most unique quality which no one on this earth has. Your Purpose of Life is also linked with that unique quality. As your purpose of your life is not for you but for Universe.

Never let yourself feel down. Because if you feel down then you are making your Creator dissatisfied.
Love yourself and then world will start loving you.

Next time when you look in to Mirror, have a broad smile and say to yourself, "I AM THE MOST UNIQUE CREATURE ON THIS WORLD"