Love is every where......

Everything on this mother earth is product of Love.Whenever you love someone you get attracted towards it. Science says everything on this earth is made up of tiny molecules. They are attracted to each other so deeply that we feel it as one object. So each object whether living or non living is made up of love. We all human beings are also product of love.

                                              

No one on this earth can survive without Love. Even the person who says “I hate”, also loves. Take for instance when you say bad to someone he feels bad and  hates your this kind of attitude. Now just change dimension and look it from other side. Question yourself “why does he hate my attitude?”answer is because he loves yourdifferent kind of attitude.

Love can be positive or reverse. It can make you or break you; it can be way you for your success or path to failure. It all depends on how YOU handle your love.  Important word in last line is “You” because at the end of the day you, yourself are the person to be blamed for path you choose. If you love to smoke, then it can lead to bad health, where as love to read can make you scholar. Love towards laziness can lead to failure where as love towards work can make you enthusiastic and shape your career to its best. So you need to understand what is right for you. Ask to your deepest soul what you would love to do and start doing that accordingly.

Excess of love can also be dangerous some times. Excess love towards work can make you workaholic and thereby make your life dull. Excess love towards achievement can make you egoistic. Excess love towards others can make you very attached to them leading to high level of expectations. And as economists have told expectations (demands) are unending.  They multiply exponentially and there is no end to it. Then suddenly you start noticing that you are the only person who loves and not the other person (which is not true at all). One event where other person did not acted as you wanted is enough to break you and then you generalize “He/ She doesn’t love me” Its gets more messier and messier.

 Even to love yourself beyond a certain extent is harmful, because it will lead you towards selfishness.

  

Love is present everywhere, it is linked to every object yet it remains “Pure” when it is Delinked. What I mean to say is we link our expectations with whom we love. We feel he/ she is my love so I should have exclusive right over him/ her. We become over possessive. But we need to realize we cannot play with the ball if you hold it tight. Let it be free, it will come back to its center and if other person is truly loving you, then you become his/ her center.

You should have unending Trust in another person. I believe no relation on this earth can be build up if basic foundation of “Trust” does not exist. Trust does not mean expectation but it’s a Belief. You don’t expect that my love should be there when I need her but you BELIVE that she will be with me whenever I need her.  Its just like belief in God. We don’t have to prove it. It’s there.

Pure love exist in the small child face, in the love of our parents, in ocean, in wind, in soil, they are ready to accept you way you are, wherever you are whatever you do, because they have least expectations. So according to me purest form of love is when it is unconditional. River gives away all of its water unconditionally to whoever comes to it.

Let’s all of us make a vow that we will touch each and every person coming in our life with wonderful feeling of Unconditional Love…..